A Good Night’s Sleep

Last night I woke at 3 am.  I vaguely remembered a dream and tried to capture some of the ephemeral images still in my imagination.  Nevertheless, I soon found myself ruminating over the worries and anxieties of the approaching day.  What should one do when faced with these kinds of sleepless nights? There is a sequence of techniques I have found which help me to fall back into a deep and restful sleep and which I would like to share with you. Continue reading

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A Simple Breathing Meditation

I once asked a client if she had ever tried meditation to help her counter stress and she answered yes but that she was unable to meditate.  When I asked what type of meditation she had tried she answered that she lit a candle, put on some soft music, turned down the lights, stared into the candle, and then tried to stop thinking.  I was not surprised she was unsuccessful because ceasing conceptual thoughts is an advanced meditation practice which many experienced mediators find difficult.  I then described a simple breathing meditation that is easy to do and practical for almost everyone. Continue reading

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A Mindful New Year

On Sunday January 9th, the Los Angeles Times ran an article describing the increase use of mindfulness therapy.  The article asked the question; is mindfulness another psychological fad, or is there something substantial to it that actually helps calm anxieties and improve mood?  Since I have meditated for close to twenty years, and often recommend simple breathing mediation to my clients to reduce stress and overcome anxiety, I read the article with focused interest. Continue reading

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Lasting Change

Many of us may start the New Year with the best intentions. We may make a list of resolutions or set a determination to break a bad habit. We desire to make real change, but as sure as night follows day, despite our best efforts, we soon find ourselves falling back into our old ways and habits. What can we do to create lasting change in our lives? Continue reading

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Something I Just Remembered

I recently received a phone call from a young woman who wanted to know if hypnosis could erase memory. She recently had an episode in her life over which she felt guilty and wondered if it was possible to erase memory of the incident. I encouraged her to work on the guilt and the behaviors that lead to the episode rather than trying to erase the memory, although studies have shown that hypnosis can be used to temporarily block memories. I use hypnosis to help my clients recall emotionally charged forgotten memories and to bring them healing by helping them examine the significance surrounding the memory and to reevaluate it with mature wisdom, understanding, and insight. Continue reading

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